Category: Masculinity
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The Two Ways We Approach Men’s Problems Are Both Wrong
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But there is a third and we should really start following it now. There is one thing that the most hardcore progressives and most conservative manosphere gurus agree on: their response to a man who comes out to talk about the problems he struggles with. About his loneliness, about feeling useless, feeling like everyone and everything…
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Talking About Change, Uncertainty And Men, Live!
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Hey all, if you’re into listening to more of yours truly, check out this podcast episode with Shari Lewinson-Frisch. I’m talking about change, uncertainty, and men’s difficulties of finding themselves in the modern world. If you guys know of any other podcasts that would have me, let me know, I’d love to keep this going.
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Life Well Lived — New Podcast Feature
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I have just been featured on the Life Well Lived podcast with Omobola Stephen. We speak about the need for positive narratives, what does it mean to be a man these days, how gender norms and structures are shifting, and of course dating. Check it out!
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Uncertainty
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It seems like more and more people are struggling in life and in relationships these days. We find it difficult to thrive and feel like everything is falling apart all the time. But what are the actual reasons behind this? And why does it seem to impact men so much more? There’s one word I…
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The Manly Stuff You Don’t Like, Guys?
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There’s a whole list of things men are supposed to do, or be, or like and dislike, and so on. The stuff real men are into, that which they should never escape from, and that which they’d never do. In some circles, you can fail to satisfy one of the points from the ‘manly’ list,…
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Most Men Are Actually Pretty Nice People, Even On The Internet
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How often to you hear that men are horrible, sexist, entitled, misogynist, and generally the worst of the worst? And men on the Internet? OMG, don’t even get me started, they are literally the cesspit of humanity spewing constant regressive hatred out of their tailpipes! Well, I’m here to lighten your day a little and…
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Does Anybody Care About Men’s Problems?
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Some men are suffering. Some are weak and can’t find their place in the modern world. Many need help. But is there anyone who actually wants to offer them help? Recently, I decided to make a move away from writing and establish a presence on YouTube and various social media. This journey has been pretty…
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Madness Café Interview!
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I am honoured to have been invited by Raquel Howard and Jennifer Moorman Bolanos to their great podcast, the Madness Café. It’s doubly important to me, as I’m one of only a few men to appear on it. We talk about a number of topics, including the problems men experience in the modern world, the…
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Men’s Problems Are Real Problems
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There is a worrying trend of denying that the problems men struggle with exist or are important. Loneliness, sexual frustration, confusion over what is appropriate, pressures to conform, difficulties in dealing with emotions, are all routinely trivialised and dismissed. Doing so is not helpful and only creates more distrust, hurt feelings, and unwillingness to improve. We need to admit…