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Why Do Men Care About ‘Body Counts’ So Much?
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I hate this term. I’d rather talk about being more sexually experienced or having had many lovers. Many men have very strong feelings about dating women who have had sex with more than a handful of guys. They can have preferences, for sure, but what do those preferences say about them? Is this a good…
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Do We Live In A Simulation? — And Other Topics
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A pretty long podcast this time, over 2h of a tour de force through a variety of subjects. I was invited by the excellent Bru Frasca to talk about philosophy, its relevance to everyday life, and masculinity at the BruCast. Watch to see yours truly talking about:
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The Two Ways We Approach Men’s Problems Are Both Wrong
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But there is a third and we should really start following it now. There is one thing that the most hardcore progressives and most conservative manosphere gurus agree on: their response to a man who comes out to talk about the problems he struggles with. About his loneliness, about feeling useless, feeling like everyone and everything…
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Talking About Change, Uncertainty And Men, Live!
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Hey all, if you’re into listening to more of yours truly, check out this podcast episode with Shari Lewinson-Frisch. I’m talking about change, uncertainty, and men’s difficulties of finding themselves in the modern world. If you guys know of any other podcasts that would have me, let me know, I’d love to keep this going.
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The Relationship Deal Is Off, Guys. It’s Time We Forge A New One.
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For millennia, most men and women operated based on a reciprocal deal: men satisfied women’s basic needs and women satisfied men’s psychological needs. As the world has changed, fewer women need or want this deal, leaving men in a void. Now, men need to find a way forward. Here is how. In 1969, somebody graffitied…
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Life Well Lived — New Podcast Feature
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I have just been featured on the Life Well Lived podcast with Omobola Stephen. We speak about the need for positive narratives, what does it mean to be a man these days, how gender norms and structures are shifting, and of course dating. Check it out!
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Uncertainty
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It seems like more and more people are struggling in life and in relationships these days. We find it difficult to thrive and feel like everything is falling apart all the time. But what are the actual reasons behind this? And why does it seem to impact men so much more? There’s one word I…
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The Manly Stuff You Don’t Like, Guys?
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There’s a whole list of things men are supposed to do, or be, or like and dislike, and so on. The stuff real men are into, that which they should never escape from, and that which they’d never do. In some circles, you can fail to satisfy one of the points from the ‘manly’ list,…
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Most Men Are Actually Pretty Nice People, Even On The Internet
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How often to you hear that men are horrible, sexist, entitled, misogynist, and generally the worst of the worst? And men on the Internet? OMG, don’t even get me started, they are literally the cesspit of humanity spewing constant regressive hatred out of their tailpipes! Well, I’m here to lighten your day a little and…