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The Relationship Deal Is Off, Guys. It’s Time We Forge A New One.
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For millennia, most men and women operated based on a reciprocal deal: men satisfied women’s basic needs and women satisfied men’s psychological needs. As the world has changed, fewer women need or want this deal, leaving men in a void. Now, men need to find a way forward. Here is how. In 1969, somebody graffitied…
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Life Well Lived — New Podcast Feature
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I have just been featured on the Life Well Lived podcast with Omobola Stephen. We speak about the need for positive narratives, what does it mean to be a man these days, how gender norms and structures are shifting, and of course dating. Check it out!
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Uncertainty
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It seems like more and more people are struggling in life and in relationships these days. We find it difficult to thrive and feel like everything is falling apart all the time. But what are the actual reasons behind this? And why does it seem to impact men so much more? There’s one word I…
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The Manly Stuff You Don’t Like, Guys?
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There’s a whole list of things men are supposed to do, or be, or like and dislike, and so on. The stuff real men are into, that which they should never escape from, and that which they’d never do. In some circles, you can fail to satisfy one of the points from the ‘manly’ list,…
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Most Men Are Actually Pretty Nice People, Even On The Internet
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How often to you hear that men are horrible, sexist, entitled, misogynist, and generally the worst of the worst? And men on the Internet? OMG, don’t even get me started, they are literally the cesspit of humanity spewing constant regressive hatred out of their tailpipes! Well, I’m here to lighten your day a little and…
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Does Anybody Care About Men’s Problems?
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Some men are suffering. Some are weak and can’t find their place in the modern world. Many need help. But is there anyone who actually wants to offer them help? Recently, I decided to make a move away from writing and establish a presence on YouTube and various social media. This journey has been pretty…
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Yes, Men Are Still Needed As Protectors
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In the past, I argued that the model of masculinity which requires men to protect and provide is outdated and defunct. I now think I was wrong. A better way to put this would be: what we should provide and protect from has changed. Moreover, it’s not just men who can or should be doing…
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The Gender Sex Drive Gap And What To Do About It
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Are there innate gender differences which continue to determine our sex drives or is sex drive a social construct that can be changed as societies, cultures, and technologies change? As with all the nature-nurture debates, the answer is: yes. As in: both. D’uh. But there is some interesting science involved that you should hear about.…
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Getting People on Board with Gender Equality
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All is not good in the world of gender equality. Around the globe, reactionary movements are gaining ground, misogynist influencers are topping online searches, and identity politics, feminism and gender studies are increasingly seen as tiresome, annoying, and out of touch. Whatever the proponents of equality are doing, it doesn’t work. Perhaps it did work…