Deconstructing You — Podcast Time!

I had an excellent conversation with Elinor Moshe a few weeks back and it just got released in her podcast. Check it out!

The conversation delves into the complexities of masculinity in today’s society, exploring the impact of societal changes, feminism, and the challenges men face in understanding and navigating their roles. It also addresses the perception of privilege, the influence of feminist movements, and the role of family structures in shaping masculine identity.

We discuss the motivation behind exploration of masculinity, the societal pressures to fit into the ‘man box,’ and the need for a more inspiring narrative around toxic masculinity. We also delve into the concept of toxic masculinity, its historical context, and the need for a more fruitful discussion. Additionally, I shared some insights on the importance of men’s circles and self-reflection in understanding and redefining masculinity.

Takeaways

• The confusion and challenges faced by men in understanding and navigating their roles in a rapidly changing society.
• The multi-dimensional nature of privilege and the need to address the intersectional aspects of privilege.
• The impact of family structures on shaping masculine identity and the importance of positive role models for boys.
• The influence of feminist movements on the perception of masculinity and the need for a more inclusive approach to gender equality. Societal pressures and the ‘man box’ create a need for men to question traditional masculinity and seek acceptance for diverse expressions of manhood.
• The concept of toxic masculinity lacks a clear definition and is often used to signal disapproval, making it challenging to have a fruitful discussion.
• Men’s circles and self-reflection play a crucial role in understanding and redefining masculinity, providing spaces for open dialogue and personal growth.

Hope you enjoy!