{"id":700,"date":"2024-01-22T14:16:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-22T14:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/simonfokt.org\/?p=700"},"modified":"2024-05-15T10:13:00","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T10:13:00","slug":"most-men-are-actually-pretty-nice-people-even-on-the-internet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simonfokt.org\/index.php\/2024\/01\/22\/most-men-are-actually-pretty-nice-people-even-on-the-internet\/","title":{"rendered":"Most Men Are Actually Pretty Nice People, Even On The Internet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p id=\"85c7\"><strong>How often to you hear that men are horrible, sexist, entitled, misogynist, and generally the worst of the worst?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"7ccc\"><strong>And men on the Internet? OMG, don\u2019t even get me started, they are literally the cesspit of humanity spewing constant regressive hatred out of their tailpipes!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"1695\"><strong>Well, I\u2019m here to lighten your day a little and bring you some much needed hope in humanity. And maybe inspire you a little to broaden your horizon and see just how many very decent men there are.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"b2f4\">A while back, I wrote a text about the Barbie movie and Ken\u2019s story arc in it \u2014 how he starts off being super needy and constantly craving Barbie\u2019s attention and validation, but at the end realises that she doesn\u2019t owe it to him and he doesn\u2019t need it. He learns to feel Kenough \u2014 enough without female validation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"b2f4\"><a href=\"https:\/\/simonfokt.org\/index.php\/2023\/09\/02\/guys-go-see-barbie-but-watch-ken\/\">Guys, go see Barbie but watch Ken<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/mans-compass\/guys-go-see-barbie-but-watch-ken-343fba82cb96?source=post_page-----5acd46bcc23e--------------------------------\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>More recently, I turned it into a video, too, check it out if you want \u2014 I even do a costume change. It\u2019s my favourite pink crop top.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"fafb\">Well, it\u2019s my only pink one. I\u2019m still working on my crop top collection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Kenough? There&#039;s a strong message more men need to hear in the Barbie film.\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/M-BEvSdCajY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"a697\">Now, I\u2019m working on my social media presence and want to reach out to men where they are actually hanging out, so I set up an account on Reddit. Yes, Reddit.\u00a0The cesspit of human hatred dominated by young boys and men who just love to revel in toxic discussions while sitting in their parents\u2019 basements growing their neckbeards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"beda\">Or is it?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"fc2c\">I started a discussion wondering what people actually thought about the film and Ken\u2019s story arc. I simply asked how they liked it and frankly was expecting to get some heat and comments saying that the film was horrible feminist crap and it has nothing of value for men. You know, some Ben Shapiro level bs. But mostly I was just expecting that some people will pour shit on me but most will not even bother to look at such a pathetic topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"ba7e\">Imagine my surprise when within 10h I got a frankly insane 2 million views, 5.5k upvotes, and 1.5k comments, with the post being at the top of the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/movies\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">r\/movies<\/a>&nbsp;subreddit for hours now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"ba09\">And the overwhelming majority of these comments are very positive! The top comment which got 4k upvotes so far, says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-base-2-background-color has-background\" id=\"6844\">I loved it. Especially as a dude who grew up thinking he was a loser for not having a gf in school. Would\u2019ve loved something like this as a kid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"467b\">The next most popular comment (2k upvotes) says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-base-2-background-color has-background has-medium-font-size\" id=\"ff5a\">You could be a stereotypically male dude, and like stereotypical male things, and that\u2019s fine. The important part, is whether you\u2019re still staying true to who you are, and of course,&nbsp;<em>not being sexist while doing so<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"a547\">Wait, what?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"1cb0\">Wait, are these\u2026? But didn\u2019t you say\u2026? What?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"604b\">You\u2019re men, but you\u2019re nice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"5bbd\">You dis sexism?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"430c\">On Reddit?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"6eec\">The world isn\u2019t as bad as you think<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"4a8f\">If you want, please don\u2019t hesitate to check out the whole thread and the responses there. I didn\u2019t cherry-pick the good ones. It is literally\u00a0full of men saying the most amazingly kind, self-reflective, wholesome things ever, of guys saying super kind and supportive things when someone says they\u2019re struggling with self-worth, of bringing up toxic male tropes just to say how ridiculous and pointless they are\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"dc1c\">It is honestly heartwarming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-reddit wp-block-embed-reddit\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"reddit-embed-bq\" style=\"height:316px\" ><a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/movies\/comments\/19cro5j\/the_barbie_movies_unexpected_message_for_men\/\">The Barbie Movie&#8217;s Unexpected Message for Men: Challenging the Need for Female Validation<\/a><br> by<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/user\/Simon_Fokt\/\">u\/Simon_Fokt<\/a> in<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/movies\/\">movies<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/embed.reddit.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"df57\">Sure, there were some few people making more toxic comments, but they got massively downvoted and received a whole load of replies telling them to abandon their regressive views.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"4a7b\">The men of Reddit have absolutely exceeded my expectations and passed this one with a glowing sparkling A+++.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"282d\">Reading this thread brings back my faith in men and in humanity. And if you are one of those people here who are submerged in the constant Men-Are-Horrible discussions, I cannot recommend it enough that you go to Reddit right now and read this thread, because it might just be the healthy detox you need.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How often to you hear that men are horrible, sexist, entitled, misogynist, and generally the worst of the worst? And men on the Internet? OMG, don\u2019t even get me started, they are literally the cesspit of humanity spewing constant regressive hatred out of their tailpipes! 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